1689 Forum Guidelines for consideration

I took the following from another forum I belong to, and propose that we consider to post similar objectives under a unique section reserved for future reference. This would allow all of us to go to it, from time to time, to refresh our memories regarding proper conduct on our forums.

[b][size=3][color=#ff0000][u]Respect Colleagues[/b][/u]
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[size=2]People have feelings, and in these forums we are conversing with real people. Remember to respond to colleagues on-line with the same respect and consideration expected in face-to-face discussions.[/size]

[size=2]Treating someone with respect in a conversation does not mean avoiding disagreements with them. One way to show we value the beliefs of others is by discussing them. Even an attempt to refute another persons beliefs shows more recognition of value than simply refusing to talk to them at all. Regard honest and thoughtful exchanges of ideas, including disagreements, as a way of showing respect for the beliefs of others. [/size]

[size=2]Don't forget that non-verbal communication - such as body language or facial gestures - aren't present in written communications. [/size]

[b][size=3][color=#ff0000][u]Post Topics In The Appropriate Forum and Category[/b][/u]
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[size=2]Focus our postings, questions, and responses alike, to the forum where they are pertinent. Avoid Lengthy Responses.[/size]

[size=2]Each communication can generate a multitude of reactions and new directions in thinking. Work to keep follow-up comments focused on the point of the original message. Trying to cover too many points in one communication can lead to a lack of clarity and leave the readers hopelessly lost. A good rule is one concept or idea per topic or follow-up. [/size]

[b][size=3][color=#ff0000][u]Remember, Topics are Not Private[/b][/u]
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[size=2]This is the World Wide Web on the Internet. Even though the forums have some privacy controls, we still never know just where our words will end up or how they will be taken there. Words can hurt. Avoid jokes, sarcasm, anecdotes, and other language that may cause unwarranted pain to others. A whisper is as good as a shout on the internet.[/size]

[b][size=3][color=#ff0000][u]Ask for Clarification[/b][/u]
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[size=2]If you find yourself reacting with intense emotion to something in an on-line message, wait to respond until you can do so constructively. Some messages may unknowingly be ambiguous or subject to multiple interpretations. Asking for clarification before reacting may prevent misunderstanding.[/size]

[b][size=3][color=#ff0000][u]Be Honest[/b][/u][/color][/size]
[size=2]Be honest with on-line colleagues and with yourself. Exploring possible viewpoints and arguments is an important part of this course.[/size]

[left][b][size=3][color=#ff0000][u]Forgive Others[/b][/u] [/color][/size][/left]
[left][size=2]People make mistakes and may say things they wish they could take back. A bit of humility, tolerance, and forgiveness is required of us all if our intellectual community is to flourish. Thanks in advance for your patience.[/size] [/left]

Category
General chat about Italy

I'd suggest you also consider including:
1. Thread vs Personal Message
- post communications in the forum that centre around questions, advice etc..
- post a personal message when it's 'chat'

2. How to use the search function (maybe another 'set of rules/guidelines are needed?)

[QUOTE=tuscanhills]I'd suggest you also consider including:
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Anything to be posted or added should be approved by the webmaster, after "we" have expressed our opinions on the matter. I.E., this is not a FrancisM matter, it concerns all of us.

Thanks for your valued input, for "our" consideration.

...............blush.

One was wrong to express one's opinion without giving full thought to one's grammar.
:)

[QUOTE=tuscanhills]...............blush.

One was wrong to express one's opinion without giving full thought to one's grammar.
[img]http://www.italymag.co.uk/forums/images/smilies/smile.gif[/img][/QUOTE]

Kim and David,

No harm done.[img]http://www.italymag.co.uk/forums/images/icons/icon7.gif[/img]

FrancisM

... forgot my grammar a hundred years or so ago...so if thats one of the rules i wont stand much chance...but agrre with most points made and dont disagrree with any.... specially like the tuscan hills addition.... with a dial up connection which often drops in and out .... i find taking five minutes to open a posting if not in a way relevant to a subject slightl irritating.... iterate slightly.... ... with pm s being limited in space as well i presume it would keep the database a lot clearer... as after 20 you have to flag some for deletion....

I agree......with first post ...sort of....if there's peronal chat its best done thro private emails as its a bit boring for those not in the know!!

I would add have a GSOH please and dont get so agitated over silly remarks.think before you post.

This forum is great for those of us new to all things ½ûÂþÌìÌà who need the pro's to guide us so don't ban lengthy forums as a certain person's very lengthy replies have been really useful to us!

Becky

[QUOTE=manopello]......so don't ban lengthy forums as a certain person's very lengthy replies have been really useful to us! ........[/QUOTE]

I think that as long as the forum management explain how to do a search (it's not the most obvious button!) then this may prevent repeat questions & offer the benefit of others' wisdom to all.